Oh man! I'm getting to my F-list really late today. I'm sooo sorry Mel. :( Though I'm not going through it, I'm still upset and mad at the same time. Too soon, too sudden, not fair. I've posted to TOG. Since you mentioned you were in-game today, I explained that you may pop in but not be very responsive considering. Any pm's you get, also mentioned you won't reply asap or for a while. Lucutis and I will be thinking of you and your family. please take care and we'll see you when you're ready. *hugs*