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It's still Christmas Eve my time as I'm writing this, but it'll be Christmas Day by the time I post it, no doubt, so merry Christmas to those of you who celebrate it - and I guess, happy Saturday to the rest of you!

(I'm totally going to have my sense of the days of the week messed up until after 2022 starts, I can tell already. Normally I work on Fridays but I'm off, and next week I'm working different days than I normally do, so I'm just accepting in advance that I'm gonna be confused.)

So even though we're not actually religious, we still celebrate Christmas at least in sort of a half-assed way - not as much as a way of avoiding the religious bits as just to make it less stressful. So today (meaning Christmas Eve) we stayed home, but tomorrow we're going over to my sister & bro-in-law's, but we're just having subs and stuff like that. (Rob seemed slightly put-out by this, and he got us a lasagne to have today at home - but I know he doesn't really want to be the one who cooks any more than P & I do!) And we're only doing sort of token gifts tomorrow. I have a bunch of FabFitFun leftovers I'm giving my sister, because I got several of those boxes this past year, and we got chocolates for the b-i-l, something we know he likes. Rob found a Mandalorian pillow somewhere! that was one of my surprise gifts, and there was a big bag of something heavy that's meant for tomorrow, he said. (I'm guessing it's Dollar Tree finds.) I have a Black Friday find for him - an electric wine-bottle opener - and his main gift is some gigantic (and literally ridiculously heavy) comic-book anthologies that he had asked for. (My main gift was getting my hair professionally cut and colored, because I said when I stopped working full-time that I wasn't going to have it colored any more. So making it my Christmas gift absolves me of having to feel guilty about going back on that.)

Rob had never seen Mean Girls, and I thought of it because of that one scene with the Christmas pageant, and so we watched that, earlier. I think he enjoyed it pretty well. I said it's really something you need to see anyway just to understand those "fetch" jokes, etc. (Then we watched part of Willow, also - and there was a little promo with Warwick Davis up about the new Willow show which apparently is going to be out sometime next year. I knew they were doing it but I didn't know what the ETA on it was.)

Sunday we think we're going to go see Licorice Pizza, and we are agreed we both want to see Spider-man again at some point. I guess that will probably have to be next weekend, since I'm working during the week. Rob is off all next week, so he may go see Nightmare Alley one of those days when I'm working, since I can't work up too much interest in that one.
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We went over to see my sister's new house last weekend. They were still unpacking, of course - they only moved in two days before Thanksgiving - but they've made good progress. The house is far smaller than the one they moved out of, but it's plenty big for the two of them. This is the house that I was talking about before, that they built new, right? It's not anything fancy from the outside at all. P said they could have upgraded the outside, but they decided they'd rather spend that money on the inside instead.

Their house in San Antonio went on the market, like, yesterday, and she said they already had an offer on it that was above the asking price. And the realtors showed it back-to-back all day. So that stuff we keep hearing about the real estate market seems to be pretty much correct. (Plus it's a really nice house. If I wanted to live in San Antonio and I had the money to buy a house like that, I'd want it.)

Also, P had asked me a month or more ago about doctors and healthcare in general, and I said, well, if your insurance will allow it, in this area you really can't do better than the healthcare system that my husband and I both work for, because they have branches all over the damn place around here, including the little town they just moved to. And today she went to one of them for the first time - it was the OB/Gyn, to be exact, and she really liked her. Which is really good, because I think I have an appointment with that same doctor next month, as it turns out. (My old OB doctor left since my last appointment!)

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Dec. 3rd, 2021 10:44 pm
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I'm writing this at work. It's slow. There are people here but nothing's going on that requires my attention, at least for the moment. We close at 9 on Fridays so it'll be time to start closing up before I know it.

Writing is a less expensive way to pass the time than what I was doing before, which was browsing Etsy. I bought a beaded bracelet and $40 worth of candles before I knew it. Oh well, I missed the Bath & Body Works sale that they always have in early December (it was today, but everything online was sold out before I thought to check), and I'm sure I would have spent at least as much there if I had had the chance. And hey, on Etsy you're (presumably) buying from a small seller, so that's good. (For the record, I bought the candles from From the Page, which as you might guess is book-themed.)

I was late to work because the traffic stopped dead about half a mile from my house and stayed that way for darn near 15 minutes. By the time it finally got moving whatever the problem was had been solved, apparently - that is to say there was no wreck to be gawked at or anything. But that kind of thing is pretty unusual in my little suburb. Getting to work involves getting on the freeway, for me, but by the time I finally got to the freeway the traffic there was problem-free.

My sister is sending me text updates on the progress of the unpacking. She says she's totally exhausted at the end of the day each day but she's also enjoying the process. I guess we're going to try to go check in person this weekend at some point.

Sisterhood

Dec. 2nd, 2021 02:36 am
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Hmm, I don't know if I got around to talking about this at all last year... Well, ok, I scrolled back and I did mention in August last year that my sister (I usually just call her P) and her husband had bought a house in our hometown. But I guess that was all I said here about it, except for another passing mention on Christmas Eve. What happened was that they were building this house, and everything was going along fine, and all the sudden the builder called them and asked for a meeting, I guess, and what they said was that the powers that be - whoever that might be in this case - had decided the house was in the flood plain. (I have never owned a home, so I know next to nothing about this stuff, except I know if affects your insurance.) I guess that meant it was much more possible that it would flood than they had anticipated, does that sound right? Well, so the builder was of course extremely apologetic, and I guess they were given various options, one of which was the option to just walk away and get their money back, and that's exactly what they did. My very uninformed decision was that that sounded like the right thing to do, given that we're close to the coast here and flooding is always an issue around here.

Naturally they were very upset and so they went back home to San Antonio and thought things over for a while. And honestly, I don't even remember how long the question of whether they were going to try again sat there undecided - I was deliberately trying not to push myself into the issue! - but finally P called me and said, well, we came back down, and we ended up buying another house. - This was just the same deal as the first one, a house that hadn't yet been built, but in a different subdivision and with a different builder. (The first builder was a very respected, well-known one, as I understand it, which is partly why it was so surprising to me when things went so spectacularly wrong. The second one was a somewhat smaller, more local company.)

Anyway, it took a while but the second house finally got all built and closed on and all that just a couple of weeks ago, and they are here, not much more than 10 miles from where I live. They are still getting unpacked and stuff so I'm giving them space - actually I think E, her husband, has gone back to sell the old house. They were very lucky to be able to keep his house in SA (which he had before they got married) while all this got ironed out, and it's a nice house and they should get a nice price for it, under the circumstances. (Everybody keeps saying real estate is a seller's market right now.)

I haven't even seen this house yet, except she sent me a picture of the front of it, which is not especially impressive. But I know P wouldn't have had anything to do with it if it didn't look much better on the inside. (She loves interior design and that kind of stuff. She is in her element.)

We had dinner with them on Thanksgiving, at a restaurant - it almost got called off because P texted me and said, "We can't even find our clothes!" but they eventually found at least some of them and we had a lovely dinner. (If you follow me on Twitter, this was where I was talking about having turkey in an Italian restaurant. But it turned out fine.)

I am not sure what it's going to be like having her nearby. I tried to figure it out and I think the closest we lived to each other since we left home was something like fifty miles or more - us in Galveston, them (her previous husband, it was then) way the hell out on the other side of Houston. I think the last time I lived at our childhood home was 1980, and that was just for the summer, and she would have been about to leave for college herself. Well, anyway, it's going to be interesting!! I'm looking forward to seeing how this goes. We are practically all the family each other has, now, except for her grown son - my nephew - who lives out of state and doesn't visit and rarely even calls - and some cousins.

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